Baby showers come with a unique sizing trap: you're often buying for someone who doesn't exist yet, with no measurements to go on beyond a due date. Here's how to navigate it.
The Newborn Size Trap
It's tempting to buy "Newborn" size clothing — it feels appropriately tiny and adorable. But many babies are born larger than the newborn size accommodates, and even those who fit it often outgrow it within the first couple of weeks. A lot of newborn-size clothing goes completely unworn.
The Safer Bet: Size Up
The 3-6 month and 6-9 month sizes tend to get the most actual wear, since babies spend more total time in these ranges than in the fleeting newborn stage. If you're buying clothing without a registry to guide you, lean toward these sizes rather than newborn.
Check the Registry First
Most expecting parents maintain a registry precisely to avoid duplicate or mis-sized gifts. If one exists, use it — it's the single most reliable way to know exactly what's needed and in what size.
Gift Ideas Beyond Clothing
- Practical big-ticket items — a baby carrier, monitor, or stroller accessory, especially if registered.
- Books — a few well-chosen children's books make a thoughtful, size-proof gift.
- A care package for the parents — new parents are often overlooked at their own baby shower; a self-care item or meal-prep gift card is genuinely appreciated.
The Bottom Line
When in doubt, check the registry, size slightly ahead of newborn, and don't underestimate a thoughtful gift for the parents themselves — they'll remember it.